Month: December 2009

  • there's something exciting about finding your tweet between heidimontag and brookeburke.

    1. Brooke Burke brookeburke

      In bed with my son. Sharing cereal. Rain is sick. Poor baby.

    2. Daniel Mukai dsmukai

      i need to learn voice tone control.. if i can always sound pleasant, then i think i can get along with people better.

    3. heidi montag heidimontag

      I cant believe its on 11 Days till Christmas !!!! Are you guys excited ?

  • the money budget system is working...

    today, i bought a replacement wallet. it had been 15 years since i had done so. lol the wallet was coach so it lasted a long time. but still... the update probably should have come much earlier. i think the problem was that i had no real good sense of money and how to spend it reasonably. i realize that when you don't have a reasonable money budget, then you either overspend like a fool or over-save like a fool depending on your disposition. i was the type that saved like a fool. anyhow, this new money budget system changed something in me that was stuck there for 15 years. this is a big change. i realize that people who are miserly or seem greedy aren't really doing it because they are bad people. they just don't have a good money budget system to allow them to share or use a portion of their money for enjoyment. so, since they hadn't done the preliminary math concerning their money they always feel like they are in survival mode and need to conserve in every moment. so they come off stingy and ungenerous. and, i feel a lot better, like a freedom of spirit of sorts because i have leisurely cash to spend. if a money management system can help this much... i wonder if there is a religious, ethical or emotional system that can help me manage my soul and ways of thinking outside money.

    anyhow, i will recommend again "all your worth" by elizabeth warren and amelia warren tyagi.

    .19cents at amazon... lol

    http://www.amazon.com/gp/offer-listing/0743269888/ref=sr_1_olp_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1260245695&sr=8-1&condition=used

    basically they say... it's 50% necessities, 20% savings 30% enjoyment.

    but for myself, i changed it a little to....

    50% necessities, 20% enjoyment and 30% to debt repayment. anything left over goes into savings. :)

  • is there a way to post anonymously... i probably only post 50% of what's on my mind, because i can't say everything. but, i want those types of posts out there so i can get traffic and get google adsense hits.

    at the bottom of this main entry menu, i see public, private, protected. can't they add an anynomous, but public button?

  • supportive good thoughts instead of bad ones...

    i think my self-esteem was suffering because i had this weird thing going on where i would smash any good idea with a bad or critical one.
    like today, i realized that one of my co-workers sorta tries to seduce me by touching her butt all time time. i knew it from before but i told myself, don't be a pervert, don't look. like, i make this good, exciting thing into a bad thing. no wonder i am always stuck. today, instead i said in my mind. it's ok to look and enjoy that because it's a sign i am healthy and straight. and, i felt this new thing, new possibilities rising up in my mind. and, i think i do this type of of criticism, smashing, rejecting thing to almost everything. so my goal is to start accepting good things that happen. i am going to let good things come into my life and i will accept it. like if someone comes at me with friendship, i won't think in my head 10 things that is bad about the person and reject them. i will think of 5 good things about them and give it a chance instead. my shift in thinking is coming from that book i am reading... "the magic of thinking big." i have rejected so many good opportunities in life by being anally perfectionistic. this has got to change.

  • お疲れ様っていつも聞くけど、なんで人はこれを使うんだろ?疲れと言う物を意識しすぎてると言うか、疲れている人間をさらにサブリミナル効果を使って精神的に押さえつけてないか? このセリフの作者は悪魔に違いない。きっと隠れSであろう。日本にまた元気になってもらいたいなら、こう言う弱みに繋がるセリフは、削除し、元気あふれる新たなセリフを考えていく事が大事だと、僕は思う。

  • operation smile all-the-time additional notes

    1. when you start smiling all the time, you start to notice most people don't look very happy. only about 5% of the people are smiling most of the time.
    2. after forcing a smile the physiological movement triggers an emotional reaction inside myself. it is related to and starts at the heart and that energy loosens the face and body.
    3. now, i am able to trigger that smile emotion without forcing the smile. but, it's easy to locate it by smiling first.
    4. when you smile, everyone seems to start smiling too.
    5. guest who usually communicate with me coldly are showing more warmth and conversation. that's the power of the smile.
    6. even if the smile is fake and others see it, it doesn't matter. i am doing it for myself and for my happiness. i will fake my smile until it is real.
    7. a small problem with smiling all the time is that it lessens anger. i sorta used anger to get through these years. i got comfortable with the anger energy so it's hard to let it go. it does have it's perks. the alpha energy that comes with anger is the most lucrative part.
    8. smiling energy connects with other smilers energies. so it sorta snowballs into a larger smile energy. maybe this is called happiness.
    9. smiling energy people have a group aura. it is easy to connect with it, you just have to smile at one of them, and you are part of it.
    10. smiling softens the face, chest and neck areas. it triggers an internal physio-emotional-massage. it's like doing ecstasy without doing drugs.

  • can u mix google adsense with other advertising site like linkshare.com on the same page?