i can keep quoting this book all day long, there's so much valuable words in here. 

"It is easy to nitpick and find fault, but our goal is to bring out the best in people. Our job is to encourage, build up, to challenge people to rise higher."

"He may do a thousand things you don't like, but find the one thing on which you can compliment him and encourage him for that."

this guy is good.

he's helping me a lot through his book.

he focuses on the simplest ideas that make the most sense.

he's got the basics down.

like...

"when you believe the best in people,
   you help bring the best out of them."

or

"complimenting each other is the glue that holds relationships together."

this guy is gonna be a really good influence on me.

this guy is good.

he's helping me a lot through his book.

he focuses on the simplest ideas that make the most sense.

he's got the basics down.

like...

"when you believe the best in people,
   you help bring the best out of them."

or

"complimenting each other is the glue that holds relationships together."

this guy is gonna be a really good influence on me.

i wonder how much i can get for a 240sx.

i want to trade it in for an scion xb.

my mom didn't want to get rid of the 240, but the media got it in her that she wants more mpg's so she is saying i can get the xb.

i think i might be able to get 5k for the 240. but, the xb is about 13k. fuck, i need 8k.

hey, i think this affirmation is working.

today, lots of old memories are starting to pop up in my mind.

usually the memories that pop up are of bad experiences.

but this morning, the memories are all happy ones that boost my confidence.

i think the mind attracts memories that you allow it to.

if you dwell on self loathing or hold lots of guilt against yourself, you attract bad memories.

if you back yourself up and love yourself no matter what, you mind attracts good memories.

i have to go to work now, today, 945-615 8.5 hours!!! first time to do an all day cashiering spot too.

this will be good for my social skills maintenance.

have a good day everyone.

BRIC stands for Brazil, Russia, India and China.

Never knew!

hey, i made over $9.00 on my blog this month.

that's a record for me.

average traffic was about 50 visitors per day.

about 1 click every other day.

i'll try to keep tweaking the technique till i make more.

i want an average of 100 visitors per day, my next goal.

I had a nice mental breakthrough today.

I realized that when I'm down or negative, there is some voices that try to keep me down.

The voices are negative, hateful, critical, and cold.

They make me feel worse and try to keep me in that state.

But I realized that I have a new tool to combat those types of thoughts.

I just have to say, "I love myself anyways."

When the voice criticizes me, I say, "I love myself, anyways."

When the voice tries to keep me down, "I love myself anyways."

I think what I was missing is the ability to stick up for myself against these voices.

I just sat there, listened to the voices and just agreed with them.

Actualy, wait, what I was doing was trying to fight these types of thoughts with anger.

I was using anger to try to over power these voices.

I get filled with adrenaline and testosterone and it feels good, BUT it has a hugely negative impact on the people around me.

So instead of or in combination with my anger skills, I'll try to use love.

When I have this eternal loop of "I love myself, anyways." going, the voices cannot come up
with enough ideas to keep me down.

Eventually the voices give up seeing that I will back myself up no matter what with...

"I love myself anyways."

Anger, Guilt, Criticism, Hate, Harshness all back down eventually to Love.