May 22, 2010
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new insights recently…

1. blaming others will stunt growth, therefore it is good to always take responsibility for the current results of my decisions in life. when i take full responsibility, it forces me to create a solution if a problem exists instead of just blaming the outcome on some external thing.2. without a generous heart, it is difficult to be attractive to other human beings. with a generous heart, anything becomes a possibility because my mind and soul are expansive, not narrow and shrinking like pettiness and greed.
3. there is a way to create a power from within without antagonizing or stealing energy from others. an ultra aggressive competitive spirit (i am better than you, or i can win against you) just isolates myself from others. but, if i use the energy that i pull from within myself (i can do it, i am doing it well) then, my source of energy is independant of others and i don’t have to feel guilt about having that energy.

4. sometimes i just have to take the leap of faith and have confidence that i can do it, even though i am really not sure how the results will be. this is the zone where i can actually grow. it is the area of my life and mind that i have not explored yet.
5. i don’t often drink beer, but when i do, i prefer dos equis.